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Thursday, May 26, 2011

Not so Sunny news

I usually try to respond to all comments on my blog, but I have not done very well the last couple of weeks.  The truth is, I've been a bit distracted.  If you only like happy, cheery, quilty topics,  please feel free to move on to another blog today.
It's not always sunny in my life.  A few weeks ago, I was slipping back into depression, although not nearly as bad as this time last year.  And that's when life was good!  Last week, Mr. QD was diagnosed with cancer.  I won't regale you with all the details, but we now know that his type is typically very easily treated.  He'll be having surgery within the next couple of weeks, and we're hoping that's all that will be needed.  We live in a small town, so he'll be going to the very well known Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, so I'll be putting some miles on my car. 
I don't often share a lot of my personal like here, and I know that some people think blogs should always be happy.  But I've made some good friends through blogging, and I want my friends to know why I might not be commenting on your blogs,  and where I'll be if I disappear for a few days.  I'll always have my trusty laptop by my side, but I don't know if I'll have wifi access.  I use blogging as a distraction from the real world, so I'll probably still be reading blogs, and looking for inspiration.  But I've found that my attention span is about 12.5 seconds. 
If I owe you something for a swap or exchange, rest assured that I plan to fulfill all obligations.  I've asked one hostess to pass on a message that I may be a little late,

If you've made it this far, thank you my dear friends!

, , , , , , , , ,sunny . . . . . . . . . .

23 comments:

  1. You and Mr QD will be in my thoughts. The treatment may be rough on you both but if it works that is all that counts in the long run. I think you need to be able to share the bad with the good and if people are true friends then they will take the bad as well. Try to keep positive ( hard I know ) and know that you have my good thoughts coming your way.

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  2. So sorry to hear this bad news. Life can be very unkind. You are both in my thoughts. Hugs.

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  3. Sunny - as previously said - you are both in my thoughts xxx
    Take good care of yourselves and each other - and we'll see/hear you when you resurface.
    xxx

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  4. You hang in there sweet Sunny. I'm thinking of you and Mr. QD, sending wishes for a healthy and speedy recovery.

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  5. My loving thought are with you both my dear friend.Stay strong and positive.

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  6. Be strong and have faith.Everything will be all right.

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  7. Sunny your blog is yours to put on what you wish, your friends are here for you good and bad, take care of yourself and your hubby. Big Hugs x

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  8. Just read my previous post.... that's good and bad news not good and bad friends LOL.... :) It's still early here ......

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  9. So sorry to hear about your sad news. Glad you tell us, as we all can pray for you both to have a speedy recovery.
    You will be in my thoughts dear Peggy, Hugs.

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  10. Sending you lots and lots of good thoughts. You take care!

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  11. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Mr QD. I hope everything goes well for you both. Take all the time you need to get back on track. We love your work and love having you in our swaps.

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  12. Best wishes to you and Mr QD...I will be thinking of you and hope you both come through this well. Bloggy hugs through the airwaves.

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  13. Dear Sunny
    Thank you so much for sharing your news with us,your blogging buddies.Together we can send you our thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery for your hubby...and for you,strength to deal with each day as it comes so you can support him..Because that's is how its done,,,One day at a time...Take care my friend
    Love
    Kate xx

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  14. I agree with Kate. Take one day at a time and as your husband walks through this valley, be sure to take care of yourself as well. God bless you:)

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  15. I'm so sorry to hear the news. Try to keep positive, I KNOW how hard that can be. Sending you prayers and strength! xoxo

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  16. I will keep you and your hubby in my prayers. Take each day as it comes. Don't worry about us here in blogland - we'll be here when you're ready to talk. Just enjoy your life together. God bless!

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  17. You and your husband are in my prayers Sunny. Your blogger friends are here to lend our shoulders if you need us. Many hugs to both of you.

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  18. things can't always be sunny. You've entered a cloudy time, you are so lucky to have each other. My DH and I went through something like that when he had a heart attack, our son was 15 months old, I would go from work to hospital, home to put the baby to bed with Nana, then back to the hospital to sleep, then up again to feed the baby and back to work. Day after day. We got through it, you will too. People you don't even know are praying for you and wishing you well, it does help! Thank you for your blog, take some time away then come back to us.

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  19. As said before, you and your loved one will be in my prayers.
    Blogs are not only for happy moments, it can be for comforting moments too!
    Take one day at a time and have joy and pleasure of each laughter.
    Have hope!
    Warm wishes
    Gina

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  20. I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share your news and the difficult times your husband is facing. I think it helps others know they are not alone in their own struggles. (I have suffered from bouts of depression more than once in my life and feel your pain along with you.) You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers and please feel free to lean on your blogger friends for support!

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  21. (((Hugs Sunny))) Know that we are praying for you guys from afar,
    lv,
    Joy

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  22. Such a hard thing to hear. We will be praying for you here.........

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